Guys Rockin' Skirts at a Contra Dance

Lost track of how many guys there are in skirts at this Contra Dance in NY. As you can see, skirting is alive and flourishing at most contra dances across the country. Get a skirt and go dancing!

Skirting the Night Away....

Contra Dancing with a Long Skirt

Skirts are more fun when you also dance with it as demonstrated about half way through this video.

What's Your Favorite Type of Skirt?

Faithful readers and skirt wearers, please let us know your favorite type of skirts and choice of colors. Unlike most pants, skirts come in many types of fun styles from ankle-length to short and made of all kinds of different fabrics and designs.

My favorite place to buy skirts are thrift stores. They always have a changing selection and they have so many skirts to choose from. If you've recently visited some department stores, you may notice that there are not as many skirts as their used to be. The thrift stores also have great deals on shoes, purses, etc.

I'll start first with my all-time favorite -
a long,purple broomstick skirt! Now what's yours?

Skirt Alert at Contra Dance

Flowing skirts are definitely in fashion at this Contra Dance. A long, flowy skirt is my personal preference and seems to be the choice of most men who wear skirts to contra dances. Choice of colors comes in all styles. However, there are some who prefer knee-length skirts or kilts. Whatever your preference skirt readers out there, it has to be better than pants!

Skirty’s Pep Talk

Guys wearing skirts is not so unusual as some may think.

I created this blog earlier this year to help build confidence and to show that more guys are wearing skirts today. Many of them are showing up at Contra Dances in skirts. There are usually a couple of guys wearing skirts and kilts these days at most Contra Dances in North America.

If you look at some of the video posts on the bog, you’ll find a large range of colors, styles and lengths of skirts that the guys are wearing. Most of the dancers are usually open-minded and sometimes even will complement guys on their skirts. I was nervous about wearing a long skirt to my first dance, but soon found the biggest barrier was in my mind.

I began wearing kilts years ago and was amazed at how comfortable they were. Later, a friend convinced me to wear a long skirt for Halloween and I’ve been wearing them ever since. I wear them for comfort and because I don’t like to feel restricted by the limited color choice and styles in pants.

It has been well documented that men have been wearing skirts/dresses/tunics for hundreds of years. In many countries around the world, skirts are still worn by men today such as sarongs, etc.

I purchased my first skirts at thrift stores and it took me a long time to wear them outside the house. A number of friends have been encouraging for me to wear my skirts more often. I built my confidence up slowly and have really enjoyed wearing them at Contra Dances, where I can spin and twirl my skirts. While I’m usually skirted at home, I’m cautious about where I wear my skirts and make sure that it is somewhere I am comfortable with.

I hope that this blog inspires many to try a skirt. I’m glad I have and wouldn’t have it any other way.

Skirts aren't just for Halloween Anymore...

Halloween is a great time to try on a skirt for the first time, but guys in skirts at Contra Dances are happening all year round like in this video. You'll usually see a couple of guys in skirts at any Contra Dance. Try the comfort and coolness of a long, flowing skirt and you'll never want to go back to pants.

Skirts are in!

New Skirt Find at the Thrift Store

OMG! My skirted friends, I just picked up this wonderful, tiered skirt at a thrift store for a couple dollars. It is a scarlet color and ankle length. I just love the style and fabric of this skirt. I can't wait to debut it at a Contra Dance!

It's been awhile since I've been thrift shopping, but you can pick up a great bargain on skirts sometimes. This is a great skirt for dancing or just for relaxing around the house. For cooler nights, try a pair of cotton leggings underneath.

I showed this skirt to a friend of mine, and she already asked to borrow it.

Another Skirted Night at a Contra Dance

Having Fun Dancing in a Skirt

Another dance, another bunch of guys having fun in skirts. Check out the mixture of interesting skirts these guys are wearing in this Contra Dance Video.

Skirting The Night Away At A Contra Dance

A handful of guys in skirts in another awesome Contra Dance video.

Hot Places to Skirt:: Goth Clubs

Goth clubs are an excellent place for guys to wear skirts. My first time I went to a Goth club, I was fascinated by both the clothing and the dark music. I noted immediately that men and women really went out of their way to dress up in all kinds of combinations of vinyl, leather and velvet fabrics - but almost always in black. Everyone there broke from tradition, and I loved it!

Right from the start, I noticed a number of guys in long, black skirts - some wearing eyeliner and lipstick. One guys was wearing an ankle-length vinyl skirt and the women wear literally crawling all over him. A couple of guys were wearing plaid skirts. Many women were wearing beautiful Victorian dresses or vinyl pants and looked gorgeous! The whole club had an atmosphere of openness and fashion freedom that I immediately wanted to become a part of.

The next time I went, was actually the first time I wore a skirt out in public, besides Halloween. I wore a long, black cotton skirt that a female friend bought for me. I was a bit nervous until I walked in the front door because the the guy checking IDs was wearing a black skirt too! Inside the club, there were a number of guys wearing skirts and even one in a black dress. I was so comfortable in my skirt, I stayed until closing. I received a number of compliments from female goths like "I like your skirt," etc. It really helped build confidence on my first night out. Over the years, I went to out to Goth clubs many times in a black skirt and had a wonderful experience. Goth Club are definitely a Hot Place to Skirt!

Skirting the Night Away at Another Contra Dance!

Lots of guys twirlin' in their skirts in this Contra Dance video at NEFFA.

Went to a Dinner Party in a Broomstick Skirt!

Dear readers and friends, I have to admit, even though I have worn skirts to concerts, festivals, etc. many times, I was a little nervous about this adventure. A female friend and some of her girlfriends were having a small, dinner party and invited me to attend.

I have not told my friend about my skirt wearing so I was a little reluctant to attend in a skirt, but decided to wear a skirt at the last moment. I decided on this new, turquoise broomstick skirt (see photo - BTW, those are not my feet :) that I just purchased. I carried along my Coach leather bag to hold my keys, cell phone, etc.

I was so nervous going to the doorway. My friend opened the door and her jaw nearly dropped to the floor. "Look at you in a skirt!" she half yelled/half laughed as her friends came running to the door. I got pulled inside and was turned around, pulled and tugged at until I started getting dizzy :).

I sat down at the table and soon found myself the center of attention for the rest of the evening (which I kind of enjoyed, actually). They asked me how many skirts I had, where I wore them, my favorite types - you name it - they asked me about it. Right about then, I noticed that out of the entire group (myself and four Ladies) I was the only one in a skirt! Maybe they had never seen a skirt before? :)

However the question I was asked most was simply "why?" and I explained for comfort. I was asked the same question so many times I guess they didn't believe my answer, but I repeated, "I feel very comfortable in a skirt, they are much more comfortable than pants."

We had a great conversation and they even gave me some skirt tips like smoothing out the skirt when I sat down. Before I left, my friend kidded me by asking if I wanted to borrow one of her skirts (she probably never wears them anyway :). But, yeah, it was a wonderful feeling to share my skirt wearing with my friends and I was a bit surprised on how quickly they seemed to accept it. They told me to come back in a skirt anytime...

More Guys in Skirts Contra Dancing

There may be a bunch of dust falling at this dance, but there are plenty of skirts in this video. I can't wait to put on my long skirt and go out Contra Dancing again!

FASHION JAPAN: Men Go For Skirts

"Japanese men are finally breaking through one of the few remaining fashion taboos: men wearing skirts and dresses."

Congrats to Japanese guys for taking a fashion step forward and putting on a skirt! I can relate to the comment about wrapping a shirt around the waist like a skirt. I used to do this all the time when I was young before I found the comfort of skirts...

Here is the rest of the article. Follow the link from www.japanesestreets.com:
FASHION JAPAN: Men Go For Skirts

Skirt Count!

Men (and women) can have fun at Conta Dance by shouting "Skirt Count!" during "Hands Four" (two sets of partners circling around in circle). Skirts are counted and then shouted back - "3 Skirts! or "4 Skirts!," etc. These days, you'll probably see more skirts (on men and women) than anywhere else. The reason? Skirts are so much to twirl and spin with!

Count the Guys in Skirts!

Looks like a lot of fun! Count how many guys there are in skirts in this Contra Dance video from the Pigtown Fling in Cincinnati. Comment and let me know how many guys in skirts you find!

Men's Skirt Day - May 15th

Mark your calendars for Saturday, May 15th, which is the "unofficial" official Men's Skirt Day! A great time to show your pride in wearing a skirt. There is already a Men's Skirt group on Facebook and don't forget the awesome forum skirtcafe.org, where men and women discuss all types of topics of guys in skirts.

More info coming soon...